The men I have known that have committed adultery on their wives have problems with their conception of what caused it. Too often men blame themselves for the adultery as a result of their lustful desires. A man doesn't accidentally stick his love rocket into another woman's love chamber. Much has happened in a marriage that should have been fixed before the lust came to fruition.
I agree that women should trust their husbands that what they say is
what they think and mean. At the same time, I think men need to be
trustworthy husbands for their wives, no matter what kind of man they
are (alpha, etc.) In my opinion, trust and open communication are two
major components of a healthy marriage, and when trust is broken, it can
be very difficult to repair the damage. I should know...as a currently
single male, I was unfaithful to my spouse, and this caused us to
separate. So I think in order for wives to trust their husbands in a
healthy marriage, men need to step up and be trustworthy to them.
This is how wives frustrate their husbands.
The problem with Anthony's analysis here is that he isn't looking back far enough to what started the issue. His untrustworthiness more than likely started earlier than waking up in marriage one day and deciding to lie to his spouse. Usually the fault of cheating men is the failure to love their wife.
I will pause for effect and outrage from the MGTOW stalkers.
Most of these men fail to love their wives enough to discipline them. They are fearful of their wives. They are fearful of the courts. Eventually, they feel so restricted in their decision making abilities they just indulge their base desires. Cheating/porn/strip clubs. Whatever the means to display individualism, they remain unwilling to love their wives. It's hard. They would rather lie to their wives about their own sins than tell them the Truth of their wives' sins. It isn't easy to love your wife. However, it is what God told us to do.