I have found that I have certain alpha type traits. My upbringing was in an environment of a mother, grandmother, two sisters, and a father working eighty hours per week. Most of the psychological impact in my life was female crazy. I had a confidence about social setting because of my intelligence, but not about the sexual setting because my close female relatives were...female. As most people reading in the mandrosphere know, women don't say what they mean. However, I was raised on the idea that Alan Alda and his over emotionalism was cool. Sooooo not true. SD is doing some great analysis on the evil of churchianity type marriage help books. Please pay attention to these evils.
Don't confuse social status with sexual status. Also, don't confuse sexual market place with marriage market place. Roissy is very useful if you are a man and want to poke as many vaginas as possible, but he isn't going to take you to the marriage step. I don't claim to have the answers to that equation, but I know it is possible to get there. The specific defining is what we need to work on as a group of Christian men. Our sons depend on it.
Marriage is the goal. Procreation is the goal. I am greatly confounded by the MGTOW crowd. They remind me of the French (proverbial, not literal) surrendering at the first sign of conflict. The French resistance, OTOH, can be a great example of persisting in the face of overwhelming force (courts, churches). Surrender is not acceptable. We, as men, have to reclaim the mantle of leadership and do it in a way that is biblical. Contempt of women (Roissy) isn't going to accomplish these goals, neither is avoidance (MGTOW). The solution lies in biblical truth and valuing the Truth over our comfort. Whether it is as an already married man or a man looking for marriage, we need to pursue God's commands to lead our wives/future wives. Fear of the courts can't stop you from living your life according to God's commands. Either you are a Christian or you aren't. Quit whining about what the government can do to you. You are not being put to death in a furnace. Stand up for the Truth while you still can without being burned alive.