If we are even going to indicate that it's somehow moral to feed into the idea that women are responsible for men not wanting them if their physical appearance doesn't measure up (and I am not down with that at all), then we should at least do so with some kind of actual evidence.She wants evidence.
No, seriously, she wants credible evidence that men want women who are physically more appealing than women who aren't.
She wants me to produce evidence that married men are not as attracted to wives who let their physical appearance go.
Evidence that men prefer their wives to not get fat.
Evidence that men prefer their wives to wear their hair the way they like.
Of course, maybe it’s fine to advocate for the position that it’s fine for men to leave their wives for being unattractive. Maybe my view is losing and at least part of the reason divorce has risen so much in our culture is because we've indicated that it's okay for a man to leave a woman because she's unattractive.She thinks the rise in the divorce rate is because it has been advocated for men to leave their unattractive wives.
This has been great comedy to start my weekend.